Tim and I agreed that anytime DHR called, we would do our best to help. We agreed that we would not let any "selfish" reason keep us from helping children who needed us. Of course if there was a child who would not work well with our current children, we would have to put our current children first and let someone else help the new child.
DHR called late one thursday night and asked us if we could take two babies. Just for one night. If we could take them for one night, they would work it out from there. So at 1 AM Tim and I went to the hospital to meet these babies who needed us. They were tired and dirty and beautiful. We were at the hospital with them until 4am. When we got home the smallest baby cried all night. Tim went to work the next day on no sleep, and I went through my day the same way. We didnt mind, but we were so tired. Neither of the children came with diapers or clothes, so I got the rest of Gracie Mae's clothes that were here for the little girl, and Lauren brought some of Jack's clothes and diapers for the little boy. The next day they found a foster home where those babies would be a perfect fit, so I took them to DHR to go home with this kind lady.
It was pretty much about 18 hours of exhaustion. We did it because we want to live more like Jesus did. We want to put others first, and ourselves last. And truth be told, there are not many foster parents who will go to the ER at 1AM just to keep babies for one night, so we knew we were needed.
About three weeks later we recieved a check from DHR for 14.47. It made me want to laugh. People who go through all of that do not do it for fourteen dollars, they do it out of love.
Two people have told me lately that they have looked into foster parenting after learning about our efforts, neither of them have decided to do it just yet.. but I am glad to know that other people have it on their hearts.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Thursday, June 24, 2010
barefeet on the dashboard...
I have not blogged in forever. Summer has been busy, and I guess I just have not made time. I am making time tonight.
I was happy to see summer arrive this year, and like they all do.. it is flying by. We have had several days of training, and I am already feeling like where has summer gone? :) The youth group is so busy, and Tim is putting forth so much effort. Our attendance has been really good, and I can see God at work. He has answered many prayers for us, and I know He is faithful to see the Fort D Youth Group do amazing things.
My family is good. Daddy has had a couple of crazy medical issues.. I personally call him a medical mystery.. but he is good :) Mom started her new job, and seems very happy. God really heard her prayers. Bert interns in the fall. He makes me proud. Tim is continuing to be my house over-achiever keeping the pool clean, yard kept up, and pulling his share of the kid responsibility for sure. Tiffany has her first job, and she loves it. We continue to adjust to one another, and I love her very much. Chris has progressed so much, he blows everyone out of the water. His speech, and behavior are amazing and I am proud that God let me have a role in his life. He will go home sooner than later probably, and I will miss him. And pray for us, loss is hard regardless of the situation. I tell Tim all the time though that I know God has this big plan for us. Despite discouragements, dispite people's negative attitudes, despite long days and short nights, there is nothing in this world I would trade for good I know I have done and has been done for me through being these children's "middle mom".
My faith continues to be strengthened, and I become more in love daily with the life that God has blessed me with.
Love to you all :)
I was happy to see summer arrive this year, and like they all do.. it is flying by. We have had several days of training, and I am already feeling like where has summer gone? :) The youth group is so busy, and Tim is putting forth so much effort. Our attendance has been really good, and I can see God at work. He has answered many prayers for us, and I know He is faithful to see the Fort D Youth Group do amazing things.
My family is good. Daddy has had a couple of crazy medical issues.. I personally call him a medical mystery.. but he is good :) Mom started her new job, and seems very happy. God really heard her prayers. Bert interns in the fall. He makes me proud. Tim is continuing to be my house over-achiever keeping the pool clean, yard kept up, and pulling his share of the kid responsibility for sure. Tiffany has her first job, and she loves it. We continue to adjust to one another, and I love her very much. Chris has progressed so much, he blows everyone out of the water. His speech, and behavior are amazing and I am proud that God let me have a role in his life. He will go home sooner than later probably, and I will miss him. And pray for us, loss is hard regardless of the situation. I tell Tim all the time though that I know God has this big plan for us. Despite discouragements, dispite people's negative attitudes, despite long days and short nights, there is nothing in this world I would trade for good I know I have done and has been done for me through being these children's "middle mom".
My faith continues to be strengthened, and I become more in love daily with the life that God has blessed me with.
Love to you all :)
Friday, May 21, 2010
First Awards to First Cars
I am keeping this blog at least partially as journal to keep track of my life.
For that reason, I want to note that last Friday I was chosen as teacher of the year at my school. It isn't a big school in a big city. Actually, the opposite.. it is a little school in a small town. But there is nowhere else I had rather be. When they listed my accomplishments and called my name to the stage.. I cried. Yep, on the stage, I cried. It was my "Aha" moment as they say on tv. You know that moment when everything you have worked so hard on, when the late nights and early mornings, when the worry and love and everything all kind of hit you.. and you see that it all really mattered. That was my moment. I think for the rest of my life I will remember it.
Also, yesterday.. I spent eight hours searching for Tiff a car I could afford, and she would be proud of. I drove cars with broken windows, and no AC. I drove cars that smoked when I parked them. I went to Tallassee, Montgomery, you name it.. And I got down about ever finding her a car! Then at 830 last night we met a sweet lady in Greenville and she sold us the most perfect car.. a black maxima with leather seats and great cd player, it has a sunroof and seems to be very mechanically sound. God provides. Everytime. God provides.
Praise God it is summertime :)
For that reason, I want to note that last Friday I was chosen as teacher of the year at my school. It isn't a big school in a big city. Actually, the opposite.. it is a little school in a small town. But there is nowhere else I had rather be. When they listed my accomplishments and called my name to the stage.. I cried. Yep, on the stage, I cried. It was my "Aha" moment as they say on tv. You know that moment when everything you have worked so hard on, when the late nights and early mornings, when the worry and love and everything all kind of hit you.. and you see that it all really mattered. That was my moment. I think for the rest of my life I will remember it.
Also, yesterday.. I spent eight hours searching for Tiff a car I could afford, and she would be proud of. I drove cars with broken windows, and no AC. I drove cars that smoked when I parked them. I went to Tallassee, Montgomery, you name it.. And I got down about ever finding her a car! Then at 830 last night we met a sweet lady in Greenville and she sold us the most perfect car.. a black maxima with leather seats and great cd player, it has a sunroof and seems to be very mechanically sound. God provides. Everytime. God provides.
Praise God it is summertime :)
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Is it summer yet?!
The last couple of weeks of school are almost overwhelming.. there is so much to do!
Anyway.. I just wanted to take a minute to say..
I am really, majorly, especially blessed.
Anyway.. I just wanted to take a minute to say..
I am really, majorly, especially blessed.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
"Be the Change You Wan to See.."
Teaching six year olds when there are only seventeen days left until summer is no easy task. We are taking it one day at a time, but this week two parents have come into my chaos to tell me they know what a "hard job" I have. Haha. Most people don't think of teaching first grade as difficult, come visit me April 1- May 21 and let me change your mind :) I love my job. I think everyone who knows me, knows that. I love teaching, I love my babies, I love my school, my coworkers, my boss.. My life is better because of my job, and I hope that is shown in my interactions.
Chris turns six today. He is really embracing the idea of being a "big boy", which is needed. I spent Jacob and Grace's birthdays with them, and now one with Chris. I can't help but think about their mothers on their birthdays. The nine months she carried them, her hopes for them, and for herself. And how sure I am that things have turned out nothing like what she had hoped. It makes me sad. It also helps me remember that these are not my children, I am just filling in a gap until those mothers can get those dreams they have back on track. There is a book about being a foster mom called "The Middle Mom". It has been suggested to me, but I have not read it yet. Anyway, that is what I feel like. The mom in the middle. I wash them, and feed them, and read to them, and love them. But I did not bring them into the world, they do not carry my name, and ultimately my home is not where they want to be. Not that they are not happy while here, it's just Jacob and Chris both held/hold tightly to the idea of going home. Being with their moms. And I cannot wish any less for them.
I'll stop here for today.
Chris turns six today. He is really embracing the idea of being a "big boy", which is needed. I spent Jacob and Grace's birthdays with them, and now one with Chris. I can't help but think about their mothers on their birthdays. The nine months she carried them, her hopes for them, and for herself. And how sure I am that things have turned out nothing like what she had hoped. It makes me sad. It also helps me remember that these are not my children, I am just filling in a gap until those mothers can get those dreams they have back on track. There is a book about being a foster mom called "The Middle Mom". It has been suggested to me, but I have not read it yet. Anyway, that is what I feel like. The mom in the middle. I wash them, and feed them, and read to them, and love them. But I did not bring them into the world, they do not carry my name, and ultimately my home is not where they want to be. Not that they are not happy while here, it's just Jacob and Chris both held/hold tightly to the idea of going home. Being with their moms. And I cannot wish any less for them.
I'll stop here for today.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
From A to Z...
I don't know what to write about today. Just that I would like to write. Maybe that will take me somewhere.
It has been three months since Jacob and Grace left. It doesn't seem that way. Tim and I find ourselves all the time mentioning them.. missing them.. and continuing to love them. Pray for them if you have a minute, I know that could make all the difference in their sweet little lives.
Tiffany has been here ten weeks now. I promise it feels like longer. I guess you get into the groove and things start to feel like they have always been how they are now.. does that make sense?
Lately, I find myself wanting to put growing up on hold. I am used to the responsibility, I even like the responsibility. It is the learning how to
make it in the world of other, more experienced adults that I find difficult.
It is like one day we are supposed to wake up and be able to fully function and decision make, and live like old pros.. when the truth is.. this whole grown up thing is kind of make it up as we go.. you know? Maybe no one feels like I do. .who knows but it is a learning experience every day for me.
This weekend is my high/college bff and roommate's first bridal shower at my house :) I am looking forward to it and I am overwhelmed by all I have left to do. I am sure it will all come together and go well. I have hosted several get togethers at our new house, and I really do like being "hospitable". I know my children will always be welcomed to have people over, I like a fully happy house :)
Random though this was, I enjoyed writing it.
Have a happy day :)
It has been three months since Jacob and Grace left. It doesn't seem that way. Tim and I find ourselves all the time mentioning them.. missing them.. and continuing to love them. Pray for them if you have a minute, I know that could make all the difference in their sweet little lives.
Tiffany has been here ten weeks now. I promise it feels like longer. I guess you get into the groove and things start to feel like they have always been how they are now.. does that make sense?
Lately, I find myself wanting to put growing up on hold. I am used to the responsibility, I even like the responsibility. It is the learning how to
make it in the world of other, more experienced adults that I find difficult.
It is like one day we are supposed to wake up and be able to fully function and decision make, and live like old pros.. when the truth is.. this whole grown up thing is kind of make it up as we go.. you know? Maybe no one feels like I do. .who knows but it is a learning experience every day for me.
This weekend is my high/college bff and roommate's first bridal shower at my house :) I am looking forward to it and I am overwhelmed by all I have left to do. I am sure it will all come together and go well. I have hosted several get togethers at our new house, and I really do like being "hospitable". I know my children will always be welcomed to have people over, I like a fully happy house :)
Random though this was, I enjoyed writing it.
Have a happy day :)
Thursday, April 8, 2010
It's not Thanksgiving.. but a Thankful List :)
I am thankful for:
Parents who drive my children to school each day.
A Grandmother who comes and calmly deals with my classroom of chaos twice a week :)
A husband with the ability to make the best sweet tea in the world.
My J-O-B.
Summer beginning in 31 sweet days.
My love.. reality television.. plus the Good Wife :)
Teenagers who are driven by a desire to please God.
Springtime!!
the fact that I was a girl scout.
who I am becoming.
That's all for now..
Parents who drive my children to school each day.
A Grandmother who comes and calmly deals with my classroom of chaos twice a week :)
A husband with the ability to make the best sweet tea in the world.
My J-O-B.
Summer beginning in 31 sweet days.
My love.. reality television.. plus the Good Wife :)
Teenagers who are driven by a desire to please God.
Springtime!!
the fact that I was a girl scout.
who I am becoming.
That's all for now..
